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Michael Santos

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51-Journey of Self-Discovery

As I settled into this new chapter of my life, I embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery. My primary goal was to establish a strong and unwavering foundation—one built upon ethics, principles, spirituality, and the guiding principles of life. This foundation was not just for my benefit but also to empower me to uplift and inspire others, helping me become the person I aspired to be.

I embraced each day with an open heart and mind, ready to seize any windows of opportunity that appeared along my path. I welcomed new programs and experiences as opportunities for life-changing growth. One key aspect of my journey was delving deep into the complex relationship between emotions and the factors that have shaped our thoughts and decision-making processes.

Within the dormitory, I found myself surrounded by a diverse group of individuals, each with their own unique stories and paths that had led them to this point. I couldn’t help but wonder about the life experiences that had brought us all together.

We all make mistakes in life; it’s an inevitable part of our human journey. It struck me that as a community, we should collectively explore our own spiritual cores. I asked myself essential questions about the direction I wanted to move towards and pondered the circumstances and choices that had brought me to this juncture. It became clear that I needed to chart a road map for the next chapter in my life.

Over the past several days at the camp, I had the privilege of both learning from and advising fellow community members. We delved into discussions about the good, the bad, and the sometimes challenging aspects of life. In an interesting turn of events, one member asked if I could write a book about my experiences. I responded with a smile, “Perhaps in the near future.”

I firmly believe that until you take that leap of faith, you’ll never truly know what you can achieve. It reminds me of the saying, “All things are possible to the person who believes.”

With a sense of purpose, I recited the serenity prayer daily, seeking the wisdom to discern between what I could change and what I needed to accept. Today was one of those great days, with warm weather and the sun shining brightly. I cherished each day as it brought me closer to the time when I would return home. I looked at every day as an opportunity for change. Change could be challenging, but it was never insurmountable.

As I listened to the stories and observed the experiences of my fellow community members, my mind opened up to new perspectives. It reinforced the importance of gratitude for the blessings that God had bestowed upon us.

I was fully aware that there would be both up and down days in the future, but I was committed to transforming any challenges into opportunities. Life, I thought, was a series of changes, but it was also wonderfully full of possibilities.

Biblical Reference: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” – Philippians 4:13

Critical Thinking Questions:

1. How have your past mistakes shaped your journey of self-discovery?

2. Can you recall a moment when you turned a challenging day into a positive one?

3. In what ways can we collectively support one another in creating strong foundations for our lives?

50-Compassion and Empathy

As I sat in my office, reflecting on the journey that brought me to that moment, I thought about the profound role that faith plays in our lives. Faith is like a guiding light that helps us navigate through the darkest of times. It’s a reminder that God is our ultimate protector and that we are like clay in the hands of the Divine Potter.

I recalled the pleasure of watching the classic movie “It’s a Wonderful Life.” It’s a film that beautifully captures the essence of the holiday season – a time when we most appreciate the true treasures in life. We cannot buy them with money. The love of our family, our unwavering devotion to them, and our good health represent the greatest gifts we can receive.

While I cherished the memories of past holidays spent with my wife, children, and grandchildren, now I am separated from them. It’s my own doing, and I must work daily to focus on making amends.

I refuse to let this separation overshadow the blessings and memories of my life. My faith keeps me focused on what I can control rather than what I am missing. Faith teaches me to feel grateful for every moment, every act of kindness, and every opportunity to make a positive impact on someone’s life.

Speaking of acts of kindness, before I surrendered, I had an encounter that left a lasting impression on me. I came across a man standing on a street corner, holding a sign asking for help. Moved by compassion, I opened my car window and gave him some money. His face lit up with gratitude, and he thanked me warmly.

Later in the day, as fate would have it, I found myself in the same convenience store as this gentleman. I noticed him purchasing a pint of vodka and a pack of cigarettes. I approached him and asked for his name, a simple gesture to acknowledge his humanity. At first, he was hesitant and curious about my intentions. I explained that I wanted to understand his story, to know more about his experiences, and perhaps offer guidance and motivation.

Our conversation revealed that life had dealt him a challenging hand, leading him to seek solace in substances. I couldn’t help but see the potential within him, even when he couldn’t see it in himself. I encouraged him to consider the “help wanted” signs in nearby stores and offered to be a guiding presence in his life.

In moments like these, I was reminded of the power of compassion and the potential for transformation. Sometimes, individuals lose their way due to circumstances beyond their control or the choices they’ve made. But as we approached that season of hope, I was reminded that the kindness and guidance we offer can be a beacon of light for those who have temporarily lost their path.

In closing, I encourage all to find inspiration in unexpected places, and allow the spirit of unity and compassion to serve as a guide as we navigate the complexities of life. Let us remember that it’s not about where we are but who we are, and the love we share with others.

Biblical Reference: “And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.” – 1 Corinthians 13:13

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How has faith played a role in your life during challenging times?
  2. What acts of kindness have you witnessed or experienced that left a lasting impact on you?
  3. In what ways can we embrace the spirit of unity and compassion, especially during the holiday season, to make a positive impact on those around us?

49-Diversity and Christmas

As the Christmas holiday season unfolds within the confines of Hazelton prison, I’m struck by the diversity of faiths and backgrounds that converge in this place. It’s a microcosm of the world outside, a melting pot of beliefs, experiences, and traditions. Here, I’ve had the privilege of interacting with people of Jewish, Muslim, Eastern faiths like Buddhism, and many others. While the holiday season is often associated with Christian traditions, I see it as an opportunity for all of us, regardless of our backgrounds, to come together in unity and shared humanity.

The Prison Mosaic of Faith:

Inside these boundaries of the prison camp, I’ve encountered a kaleidoscope of faiths and perspectives, each person’s journey unique and meaningful. Some find solace in the teachings of the Torah, while others bow in prayer toward Mecca. There are those who follow the path of mindfulness and meditation, and many more who carry their own spiritual practices and beliefs.

Yet, despite our differences, I’ve witnessed a remarkable sense of respect and curiosity among people in prison. We ask questions, share stories, and embrace the chance to learn from one another. It reminds me of the fundamental human need to connect, to understand, and to appreciate the beauty of our diversity.

Christmas: A Season of Unity:

As the Christmas season envelops us, I find it particularly fitting to reflect on the message of unity and love that this holiday embodies. Christmas is not just a Christian celebration; it’s a universal reminder of the importance of compassion, generosity, and the bonds that connect us all.

In a world that often seems divided, Christmas calls upon us to come together and celebrate our shared humanity. It transcends religious labels and cultural boundaries, inviting us to embrace the values of peace, goodwill, and the spirit of giving. It’s a time when we can focus on our similarities rather than our differences, nurturing the sense of unity that is at the core of our existence.

Living in Gratitude:

Being apart from my beloved family during this holiday season is undoubtedly challenging. The absence of my eight grandchildren, my three daughters, and my wife of over 45 years weighs heavy on my heart. However, I’ve learned that dwelling on what we lack can blind us to the abundance that surrounds us.

Through prayer and reflection, I’ve been able to shift my perspective. I’ve realized that while I may not be physically present with my family, I can still be there for them in spirit. I can use this time to focus on what I can control—the impact I can make within these prison walls and the lessons I can share with others.

A Biblical Reminder:

One verse from the Bible that resonates with me during this season is from the book of Matthew 18:20: “For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” It reminds me that the essence of Christmas isn’t confined to grand gatherings or lavish festivities. It’s about coming together, even in small ways, and recognizing the presence of something greater than ourselves.

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How can the holiday season, regardless of one’s faith, serve as an opportunity for fostering unity and understanding among diverse communities?
  2. In what ways can we find gratitude and focus on what we can give, rather than what we lack, during challenging times or separations from loved ones?
  3. How can the message of Christmas be applied to our daily lives, beyond the holiday season, to promote empathy and connection with others?

As I continue my journey within these prison walls, I hold on to the spirit of Christmas as a reminder of our shared humanity and the potential for unity, understanding, and growth that resides within each of us. May this season inspire us all to reach out to others, embrace our differences, and celebrate the love and compassion that connect us all, no matter where we find ourselves.

48-Chaldean Catholics

As I continue my journey through these days of reflection and growth during my time in the Hazelton prison camp, I find immense strength and solace in my faith and my connection to the Chaldean Catholic Church. Born in Iraq, my roots are deeply embedded in this ancient faith, which has played a significant role in shaping my life and providing me with unwavering strength, especially during times of struggle, and we move closer to the Christmas holiday.

Origins and Identity: The Chaldean Catholic Church is an Eastern Catholic Church, part of the larger Catholic Church. It traces its origins back to the Church of the East, which itself developed in what is now Iraq, Iran, and Syria. The Chaldean Church formally united with the Roman Catholic Church in the 16th century. This church should not be confused with the ancient Chaldeans, who were an ancient Semitic-speaking nation that once inhabited the region of southern Mesopotamia.

My connection to the Chaldean Church is deeply rooted in my heritage and upbringing. Growing up as a child in Iraq, I was surrounded by the rich traditions, rituals, and teachings of this faith. It provided a moral compass and a sense of community that would guide me throughout my life. Our family continued those traditions once we immigrated to the United States and settled in the Detroit area.

Liturgical Language and Practices: The Chaldean Church uses the East Syriac Rite. Its liturgical language is Classical Syriac, a language closely related to the Aramaic spoken by Jesus. This unique liturgy has always felt like a bridge connecting me to the roots of Christianity, reminding me of the timeless nature of our faith.

Leadership and Structure: The head of the Chaldean Catholic Church is the Patriarch of Babylon, a title currently held by Louis Raphaël I Sako. The Patriarch is based in Baghdad, Iraq. The church is organized into archdioceses and dioceses, mostly located in Iraq, Iran, Syria, and Lebanon, but also with a significant diaspora in countries like the United States and Australia.

Community and Current Challenges: The Chaldean Catholic community in Iraq has faced numerous challenges, especially in the last few decades. Political instability, persecution, and violence, particularly since the Iraq War in 2003. It has led to a significant decline in the Chaldean Catholic population in their historic homelands. Many have been forced to flee to other countries.

Witnessing the struggles of my fellow Chaldeans and the challenges faced by the church in the Middle East has been heartbreaking. It has strengthened my resolve to support and uplift my community, both within the prison walls and beyond, whenever I have the opportunity.

Faith as a Source of Strength: Throughout my life, I’ve leaned on my faith during times of adversity. Whether facing the uncertainty of immigration to the United States as a child, the challenges of my career, or the difficulties that have brought me to this point in my life, my faith has been a constant source of strength.

The Chaldean Catholic Church has taught me the values of resilience, compassion, and forgiveness. It has instilled in me the belief that even in the darkest of times, there is a higher purpose and a divine plan. Through prayer and meditation, I find solace and guidance, and my daily recitation of the Rosary helps me stay connected to my faith.

As I reflect on my journey, I am reminded of the importance of faith in my life and how it has shaped me into the person I am today. It is this faith that compels me to make the most of my time in prison, to continue my work on “The Dalaly Mindset” workbook, and to support and inspire others on their own journeys of personal growth and transformation.

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How has faith or spirituality played a role in your own life during challenging times?
  2. In what ways can the teachings and values of your faith or belief system guide you to make a positive impact on your community or society at large?
  3. What practices or rituals help you find strength and solace in times of adversity?

I look forward to the opportunities that lie ahead and to sharing the wisdom and lessons I’ve gained from my faith and experiences with others as I continue to grow on this path of self-discovery and personal development.

47-Extraordinary and Compelling

The words “extraordinary” and “compelling” have taken on profound significance in my life, especially as I find myself navigating the complexities of the judicial system and the concept of compassionate release. These terms represent the elusive criteria that can make a significant difference in whether an individual is granted a chance for early release from incarceration.

As I immerse myself in the law library, trying to make sense of complicated legal texts and prison policies, I strive to understand the intricate web of rules and regulations. Frequently, I’ve come across these words “extraordinary and compelling” in the context of compassionate release. The judicial system calls for the consideration of an “extraordinary and compelling” release plan, but what does that truly entail? It’s a question that has gnawed at my mind as I strive to understand the path toward freedom and redemption.

The legal definitions and guidelines surrounding these terms can be elusive, leaving much to interpretation. It’s as if the law expects us to intuitively grasp what makes a release plan extraordinary and compelling. But in my view, it’s a complex puzzle, and the pieces don’t always fit neatly together.

However, I have come to interpret these words in a way that aligns with my personal journey and my commitment to making amends with society. To me, being extraordinary means striving every day to be a better version of myself, to grow, and to contribute positively to the community. It means transcending the mistakes of the past and focusing on the present and the future. It means living a life that inspires others and leaves a lasting impact.

On the other hand, being compelling means that my actions, my character, and my commitment are so persuasive that they leave no doubt about my sincere desire for rehabilitation and reintegration into society. It means being a force for good, someone whose transformation and dedication are undeniable.

My misguided decision to pay an inappropriate fee to a person with authority led to my criminal charge and conviction. I broke the law, and I accept full responsibility for my actions. Making amends requires more than just serving my sentence; it compels me to think deeply every day and to work tirelessly toward giving back to the community I once harmed.

To show that we can always work toward reconciliation, I decided to write The Dalaly Mindset. I’ll use this resource to teach my grandchildren, and to teach others who choose to work on personal development with me while I serve my sentence.

It is this sense of purpose and responsibility that compelled me to create a resource that I could use to teach and inspire others. I am committed to helping individuals inside and outside of prison understand the importance of personal growth, transformation, and the pursuit of an extraordinary and compelling life.

In the grand tapestry of the legal system, the words “extraordinary” and “compelling” may remain elusive and open to interpretation, but in my heart and in my actions, they serve as guiding principles. They remind me that every day is an opportunity to be extraordinary and compelling, to build a life of meaning and purpose, and to work toward reconciliation with society.

As I reflect on this journey, I am reminded of the words of Proverbs 16:3 (NIV): “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” My commitment to personal growth and positive impact is my path forward, and I trust that it will lead me to a future where I can contribute to society in a meaningful way.

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How can the legal system provide clearer guidance on what constitutes an “extraordinary and compelling” release plan, ensuring fairness and consistency in compassionate release decisions?
  2. What role does personal growth and transformation play in an individual’s ability to demonstrate an extraordinary and compelling commitment to rehabilitation and reintegration into society?
  3. In what ways can individuals who have faced legal challenges and convictions use their experiences to inspire positive change in their own lives and the lives of others, both inside and outside of the prison system?

46-Good Counsel

Gratitude is a powerful and transformative emotion. It has the ability to shift our perspective, even in the most challenging of circumstances. As I reflect on my journey, particularly my experience with the legal system, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for the legal representation I received.

Before my life took a turn that led to my separation from my family and my time in prison, the concept of hiring a criminal defense attorney was foreign to me. It was a realm I had never ventured into, and I had never needed to consider. But life has its twists and turns, and sometimes, we find ourselves in situations we could never have anticipated.

The Lord truly blessed me with a team of legal counselors who not only understood the complexities of the legal system but also cared deeply about my well-being and future. Ray, Alex, and Dan were more than just lawyers; they were guides on a difficult journey. They approached my case with a sense of honor and integrity that set them apart. They worked closely with my wife and daughters. They visited my home and helped me see how we could work through this and emerge stronger from the experience.

Their guidance was instrumental in helping me navigate the legal challenges I faced. They not only steered me away from decisions that could have led to a more severe sentence, but they also helped me work through the emotional and psychological aspects of accepting responsibility for my actions and seeking a path to redemption. It was through their support that I began to understand the importance of turning the page, taking ownership of my past, and focusing on creating a better future.

Since my arrival in prison, I have had the opportunity to meet many individuals who, like me, have made mistakes and found themselves incarcerated. However, not everyone has been as fortunate as I was to have received the kind of guidance and legal representation that I did. I have witnessed the struggles of those who did not have access to knowledgeable and compassionate legal counsel, and their stories are a stark reminder of the importance of having the right guidance during such trying times.

It is with a sense of duty and gratitude that I am committed to helping others within the prison system. I spend time with a young man who has been incarcerated for over a decade, and together, we explore the principles and lessons from the workbook that I am developing. Through this endeavor, I hope to provide him and others with a deeper understanding of what it means to be extraordinary and compelling, even in the face of adversity.

As I reflect on this journey, I am reminded of the words of Proverbs 19:20 (NIV): “Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end, you will be counted among the wise.” I am grateful for the wise counsel I received from my legal team, and I strive to pay it forward by offering guidance and support to those who may not have had the same opportunities.

In conclusion, gratitude for the legal representation I received serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of guidance and support during challenging times. It fuels my commitment to helping others on their journey toward personal growth and transformation, and it reinforces the belief that even in the most challenging circumstances, positive change is possible.

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How does access to quality legal representation impact an individual’s ability to navigate the legal system and work towards rehabilitation and redemption?
  2. In what ways can individuals who have received guidance and support from others pay it forward and make a positive impact on the lives of those who are less fortunate?
  3. How can the principles of acceptance, personal responsibility, and a focus on a better future be applied to various aspects of life, both inside and outside of prison, to foster personal growth and transformation?

45-Full Fitness

As I continue my journey through the prison system, one thing that has become evident to me is the dedication that many individuals here devote to their physical fitness. It’s a striking observation to witness the sheer number of people who make exercise a central part of their daily routine. Whether it’s performing push-ups on the prison yard, running laps around the oval track, or engaging in spirited basketball games, I am impressed with the number of people who commit to developing their physical health.

This emphasis on fitness is a testament to the recognition that maintaining one’s physical well-being is essential, regardless of the circumstances. It’s a reminder that even within the confines of a prison, individuals can take proactive steps to prioritize their health and vitality. The importance of diet and exercise cannot be overstated, as they play a crucial role in enhancing both physical and mental well-being.

In my own journey, I have embraced the value of regular exercise and healthy eating. I recognize that taking care of my body is not only a means of staying physically fit but also a way to foster discipline and resilience. Just as exercise strengthens the body, it also fortifies the mind, preparing me to face the challenges of each day with determination and a positive outlook.

However, physical fitness is just one dimension of personal development. I firmly believe in the importance of nurturing the mind and spirit as well. In addition to my physical regimen, I devote time to prayer and meditation. Each day, I turn to my Rosary, a symbol of faith and devotion, to guide me in daily prayers and reflections.

This practice of prayer and meditation offers me solace and spiritual sustenance, reminding me of the enduring power of faith and the importance of maintaining a connection with a higher purpose. It serves as a source of strength, helping me navigate the complexities of life with a sense of inner peace and resilience.

Reflecting on this journey, I am reminded of the words from the book of Proverbs, which guide my approach to personal development: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

These words inspire me to trust in a higher power, even in the face of adversity, and to continue my pursuit of personal growth and self-improvement. They remind me that through faith, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to health and well-being, I can find the strength to overcome challenges and create a brighter future.

In conclusion, the commitment to physical fitness, combined with the practice of prayer and meditation, forms an essential part of my daily routine within the prison walls. It is a holistic approach to personal development that encompasses the body, mind, and spirit. Through this journey, I am reminded of the importance of faith, discipline, and perseverance in the pursuit of a meaningful and purposeful life.

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How does the integration of physical fitness, prayer, and meditation contribute to an individual’s overall well-being and personal development?
  2. In what ways can faith and spirituality serve as sources of strength and resilience in challenging circumstances?
  3. How can the principles of discipline and commitment to health be applied to various aspects of life, both inside and outside of prison, to foster personal growth and transformation?

As we reflect on these questions, we are reminded of the importance of holistic well-being, embracing faith, and nurturing both the body and the soul on the journey of personal development.

44-Self-Help Workbook

As I continue my journey within the confines of Hazelton prison camp, I am resolute in my determination to make the most of my time here. Each day presents an opportunity for growth, learning, and reflection. One of my primary focuses during this period of incarceration is the development of the Dalaly Mindset workbook—a project that has become a beacon of purpose and inspiration.

The idea for the Dalaly Mindset workbook emerged from a deep desire to share the lessons I have learned throughout my life’s journey, both before and during my time in prison. It is a testament to the power of positive thinking, resilience, and personal development. This workbook will serve as a valuable resource for anyone seeking to transform their mindset, overcome challenges, and achieve their goals.

Drawing upon my experiences, the wisdom of mentors, and the teachings of great philosophers and thinkers, I am carefully crafting a comprehensive guide that will empower individuals to cultivate a mindset of success, regardless of their circumstances. It is a labor of love—a way for me to give back to society and make a positive impact on the lives of others.

In the process of creating the Dalaly Mindset workbook, I find solace and purpose. It allows me to channel my energy and intellect into a productive endeavor, reinforcing my commitment to personal growth and transformation. Each chapter, exercise, and piece of advice is carefully curated to provide practical tools and insights that can help individuals navigate life’s challenges with resilience and optimism.

As I work diligently on this project, I am reminded of the words of the Stoic philosophers who remind us that: “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” The Dalaly Mindset workbook aims to instill this wisdom in its readers, guiding them to adopt a mindset that embraces adversity as an opportunity for growth and change.

While my physical surroundings may be limited, my mind is free to explore boundless possibilities. Through the creation of this workbook, I hope to inspire others to unlock their potential, set meaningful goals, and persevere in the face of obstacles. It is a testament to the enduring power of the human spirit and the capacity for transformation.

As I move forward with this project, I am also acutely aware of the importance of continuous self-improvement. Just as the Dalaly Mindset workbook is designed to empower others, it serves as a reminder to me that growth and learning never cease. I am committed to honing my skills, expanding my knowledge, and deepening my understanding of the principles that underlie personal development.

In conclusion, the development of the Dalaly Mindset workbook is not just a personal endeavor; it is a mission to inspire and uplift others. It is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring belief that positive change is possible, even in the face of adversity.

As I work toward completing this project, I am grateful for the opportunity to share my insights and experiences with the world. It is my hope that the Dalaly Mindset workbook will serve as a guiding light for those seeking to cultivate a mindset of success, resilience, and unwavering hope.

With each page I write, I am one step closer to achieving this goal, and I am filled with a sense of purpose and determination. The journey continues, and I am eager to see the positive impact that the Dalaly Mindset workbook will have on the lives of those who embrace its teachings.

“Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How can the Dalaly Mindset workbook help individuals overcome adversity and develop a resilient mindset?
  2. In what ways can the principles of personal development and positive thinking be applied to various aspects of life, both inside and outside of prison?
  3. What role does continuous learning and self-improvement play in the journey towards personal growth and transformation?

43-The Lord is My Shephard

As I observe life within the federal prison camp at Hazelton, I can’t help but reflect on the stark contrast between our minimum-security environment and the adjacent high-security penitentiary. Before surrendering to this camp, I delved deep into research about federal prisons, and the stark disparities became evident. The high-security prison, with its gangs and violence, paints a bleak picture of incarceration—one that stands in stark contrast to my current surroundings.

This stark contrast brings to mind a powerful analogy from the Bible, one that reminds me of the importance of gratitude and the blessings I have received. In the Book of Psalms, particularly Psalm 23, we find the well-known passage: “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.”

This passage serves as a reminder that even in the most challenging of circumstances, we can find solace and gratitude. It encourages us to focus on the blessings we have received rather than dwelling on the dangers and adversities that surround us. Just as a shepherd guides and protects his flock, so too does God watch over us, providing us with the strength and resilience to face the trials of life.

Within the prison walls, I am acutely aware of the dangers and challenges that exist in the high-security penitentiary that is only a short walk away from where I am at present. I do not mix or interact with the people inside the high-security prison, but from what I read before surrendering, I learned that gangs, violence, and a Darwinian struggle for survival are the daily realities for those incarcerated there.

It serves as a stark reminder of the path others live.

As I ponder these circumstances, I am filled with gratitude for the safety and relative peace I share with others in this minimum-security camp. The analogy from Psalm 23 reminds me that even in the midst of adversity, there is an opportunity to recognize and appreciate the blessings that have been bestowed upon me. It is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the capacity to find hope and gratitude, even in the face of challenges.

Rather than dwelling on the dangers that lurk beyond the camp’s boundaries, I choose to focus on my path toward personal growth and transformation. Perhaps with this new workbook I’m creating, I’ll be able to offer some hope and guidance to people that I’ll never meet—like people in the prison next door.

Mine is a journey guided by faith, hope, and a profound sense of gratitude for the blessings that have illuminated my life. We all can live in gratitude.

In a world where survival can become the sole focus, we still can strengthen ourselves with the spirit of gratitude. It is a choice—a conscious decision to acknowledge and appreciate the gifts that life has offered me, regardless of the circumstances that surround me.

As I navigate this unique chapter of my life, I am committed to living each day with a heart filled with gratitude. I will carry the lessons of Psalm 23 with me, reminding myself that even in the most challenging of environments, there is room for hope, faith, and thanksgiving.

In conclusion, I leave you with three critical thinking questions:

  1. How can practicing gratitude, even in challenging circumstances, contribute to one’s resilience and overall well-being?
  2. In what ways can we draw strength and inspiration from the Bible’s teachings, such as Psalm 23, to navigate difficult times in our lives?
  3. How can we support and encourage those facing adversity, helping them find moments of gratitude and hope amidst their challenges?

As I move forward on my journey of personal growth and transformation, I am determined to embody the spirit of gratitude, recognizing that even within the prison walls, blessings can be found, and hope can flourish.

42-Hope and Resilience

As I navigate life within the confines of this federal prison camp, I can’t help but observe the struggles and challenges faced by my fellow inmates. The weight of their past mistakes, the separation from loved ones, and the daunting uncertainty of the future often cast a shadow over their spirits. Yet, amid these difficulties, I’m reminded of a powerful lesson from the Bible—one of unwavering hope and resilience.

In the Book of Genesis, we find the story of Joseph, a young man who faced tremendous adversity and hardship. Joseph’s own brothers betrayed him, selling him into slavery. He endured false accusations and found himself imprisoned. Despite these trials, Joseph clung to his faith and integrity. He interpreted dreams, demonstrating his God-given gift, and eventually rose to a position of great authority in Egypt, second only to Pharaoh.

Joseph’s story serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable challenges. It reminds us that hope can thrive even in the darkest of circumstances. Joseph’s unwavering faith in God’s plan and his commitment to doing what was right propelled him forward, ultimately leading to his triumph over adversity.

Similarly, within the prison walls, I witness individuals who, like Joseph, refuse to be defined solely by their past mistakes. They choose to focus on personal growth, self-improvement, and the pursuit of knowledge and skills that will serve them upon their release. Their resilience in the face of adversity is nothing short of inspiring.

I’ve had the privilege of engaging in conversations with other men who share this space with me in the Hazelton Federal Prison Camp. Like me, they are determined to make the most of their time here. They actively participate in educational programs, vocational training, and self-help initiatives. Their pursuit of knowledge and self-improvement is a testament to the human capacity for hope and resilience.

While we may not control the circumstances that brought us to this point, we do have agency over our response to those circumstances. The story of Joseph teaches us that hope can be a driving force, guiding us through the darkest of nights and toward a brighter future.

As I reflect on these lessons, I am reminded of my own journey and the importance of sowing seeds of hope and resilience in the lives of others. It is a calling that transcends the prison walls, a commitment to uplift and empower those who may be struggling.

Despite the challenges that surround us, there is a prevailing sense of hope among inmates who are actively working toward rehabilitation and personal growth. They understand that while they cannot change the past, they can shape a better future. This mindset of resilience is a beacon of light in the most unexpected of places.

In closing, I leave you with three critical thinking questions:

  1. How can the story of Joseph from the Book of Genesis inspire us to persevere through adversity and maintain hope in challenging times?
  2. What role does faith and resilience play in overcoming the obstacles that life presents, and how can we cultivate these qualities in our own lives?
  3. In what ways can we actively support and encourage those who are facing difficulties, helping them find their path to a better future?

As I continue my own journey of personal growth and transformation, I am dedicated to sharing the message of hope and resilience with those around me, for it is a message that knows no bounds and has the power to illuminate even the darkest of paths, guiding us toward a brighter future filled with hope, faith, and unwavering resilience.

41-Lessons from Parents

As I sit down to write on this December day in 2023, I find myself drawing upon the invaluable lessons I’ve learned from my parents and the memories of our journey to the United States when I was a child. These recollections continue to shape my perspective and guide me as I navigate the challenges of my present circumstances.

My parents, both hardworking and resilient individuals, instilled in me the values of perseverance and determination from an early age. They came from humble beginnings, facing economic hardships and limited opportunities. However, they never let their circumstances define them. Instead, they demonstrated the power of hard work, sacrifice, and unwavering faith.

Our journey to the United States, leaving behind everything familiar to us, was a significant turning point in my life. I was just a child at the time, and I may not have fully comprehended the magnitude of the decision my parents had made. Yet, their courage and commitment to providing a better future for our family left an indelible mark on my heart.

The memories of those early days in a new country are etched into my consciousness. We faced the challenges of adapting to a different culture, learning a new language, and striving to build a life from the ground up. It was a testament to the resilience and determination of my parents, who never wavered in their pursuit of the American dream.

As I reflect on those formative years, I am reminded of the sacrifices my parents made for the sake of our family’s future. They worked tirelessly, often taking on multiple jobs to make ends meet. Their dedication to our education and well-being was unwavering, and it was through their example that I learned the value of hard work and the importance of education.

My parents’ journey and the values they instilled in me continue to guide me during my time apart from my family. Just as they faced adversity with courage and determination, I too am determined to make the most of my current circumstances. I draw upon their lessons of resilience and adaptability as I navigate the challenges of life in a federal prison camp.

In many ways, my parents’ experiences serve as a source of inspiration and strength. Their journey to a new land, their unwavering faith, and their commitment to family resonate with me now more than ever. It is a reminder that, even in the face of adversity, we can find the inner strength to overcome obstacles and persevere.

As I move forward into this day, I carry with me the legacy of my parents’ resilience and the enduring lessons they imparted. Their journey serves as a testament to the enduring human spirit and the power of hope, faith, and hard work.

In conclusion, I leave you with three critical thinking questions:

  1. How can the lessons learned from our parents and their experiences shape our own resilience and determination in the face of adversity?
  2. What role does faith and unwavering commitment play in overcoming challenges and pursuing our dreams, drawing upon the example set by our parents or mentors?
  3. In what ways can we honor the sacrifices and values instilled in us by those who came before us, using them as a source of strength and inspiration in our own lives?

As I continue on this journey, guided by the lessons of my parents and the experiences of my past, I am filled with hope and determination for the future.

40-Holiday Reflections

As I sit down to write on this December day, I find myself reflecting on the recent Thanksgiving and looking ahead to the holiday season. It was a Thanksgiving unlike any other, filled with the warmth of family, the laughter of children, and the love that enveloped our home. Those memories are now my source of strength and comfort as I navigate this holiday season apart from my loved ones.

Our Thanksgiving gathering was a true blessing, with our children, grandchildren, son-in-laws, and even my nephew, Dr. Nick, gracing our home with their presence. We’re all so proud of Dr. Nick. He graduated from the University of Michigan, and then attended advanced training at Harvard.

The joy and excitement of the Thanksgiving holiday felt palpable. As children played, laughter echoed through the house, and the aroma of a delicious meal filled the air. As we gathered around the table, I offered a heartfelt prayer, mentioning each family member by name, and asking for their protection and well-being during my time away. It was an emotional moment, but one filled with unwavering love and support.

Now, as the holiday season is upon us, I find myself contemplating how different this Christmas will be, spent apart from my family. It’s a prospect that weighs heavy on my heart, yet I am determined to make the most of the situation. While I may be physically separated from my loved ones, I know that our bond remains unbreakable. The memories of past holidays, the love we share, and the hope for a brighter future sustain me during these challenging times.

In moments like these, I often turn to the wisdom found in the book of Proverbs in the Bible. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” These verses serve as a reminder that, even in times of separation and uncertainty, our faith can guide us and provide us with the strength to persevere.

As I prepare to spend Christmas here in the Hazelton Federal Prison Camp, I am reminded of the importance of resilience and the power of the human spirit to adapt and overcome. It is a time for reflection, gratitude, and the strengthening of inner resolve. I am committed to using this time apart to focus on personal growth, self-improvement, and the creation of new goals and aspirations.

While the physical distance may separate us this holiday season, our hearts remain intertwined. We have the technology and the means to connect virtually, bridging the gap even when miles apart. In a way, this experience has reinforced the importance of cherishing our loved ones, for it’s in times of separation that we truly appreciate the value of their presence.

As I look forward to the upcoming year, I am filled with hope and anticipation. With each passing day, I am one step closer to reuniting with my family and resuming the life I once knew. This time of solitude has allowed me to reflect on the blessings I often took for granted and to cherish the moments yet to come.

Now, I leave you with three critical thinking questions to ponder:

  1. How can we find strength and purpose during times of separation from loved ones, such as the holiday season spent away from family, by trusting in our faith and seeking guidance from God?
  2. What are the ways in which we can harness the power of memories and shared experiences to stay connected with our loved ones, even when physically distant, while still leaning on the wisdom of Proverbs?
  3. In what ways can adversity and challenges serve as catalysts for personal growth and transformation, especially during moments of solitude and reflection, guided by our faith?

As I move forward into this holiday season, I am committed to cherishing the memories of past celebrations, staying connected with my family in spirit, and embracing the opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. With hope, faith, and determination, I look forward to a brighter future when we can once again gather and celebrate together.

39-Dalaly Pop

Drawing Strength from Past Endeavors

As I reflect on the path that has led me to this moment, I find strength and inspiration in the memories of a venture that I embarked upon years ago—the Dalaly Pop sucker company. This journey, filled with both challenges and triumphs, serves as a reminder of the resilience and determination that has carried me through various chapters of my life.

The Dalaly Pop sucker company was born out of a vision to create a product that brought joy to people’s lives. I remember the early days of crafting and perfecting our unique flavors, experimenting in the kitchen, and enlisting the help of family and friends to turn our dream into a reality. The process was far from easy, with countless hours of hard work, dedication, and a fair share of setbacks.

One particular memory that stands out is the day we introduced our popsicles at a local event. The excitement and anticipation were palpable, but as we set up our booth, doubts and uncertainties crept in. Would people embrace our product? Could we compete in a market dominated by established brands? These questions loomed large, but we pressed on with unwavering determination.

To our delight, the response was overwhelmingly positive. People from all walks of life lined up to taste our handcrafted popsicles, and the smiles on their faces were worth every moment of doubt and struggle. It was a testament to the power of persistence and the belief that even the most ambitious dreams can be realized with dedication and hard work.

Today, as I navigate the challenges of my current circumstances, I draw strength from the Dalaly Pop sucker journey. It reminds me that I have faced adversity before and emerged stronger for it. The lessons of resilience, creativity, and unwavering determination are as relevant now as they were then.

The memories of those early days of entrepreneurship serve as a source of motivation. They remind me that I have the ability to overcome obstacles and create opportunities, even in the face of uncertainty. Just as we persevered in the early stages of the Dalaly Pop sucker company, I am determined to make the most of my time in prison, using it as an opportunity for personal growth and to contribute positively to the lives of others.

In conclusion, the Dalaly Pop sucker journey is a testament to the power of persistence and the belief that with dedication and creativity, we can turn our dreams into reality. As I reflect on these memories, I am filled with a renewed sense of purpose and determination. Just as we brought smiles to people’s faces with our popsicles, I am committed to making a positive impact during my time in prison and beyond.

Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. Reflecting on the Dalaly Pop sucker journey, what lessons can be drawn about the importance of perseverance and determination in pursuing one’s dreams and overcoming challenges?
  2. How can past entrepreneurial experiences, like the creation of the Dalaly Pop sucker company, provide valuable insights and inspiration for individuals facing adversity in their lives or seeking to make a fresh start?
  3. In what ways can we apply the principles of creativity, dedication, and resilience from entrepreneurial ventures to our daily lives, helping us navigate obstacles and work towards our goals, regardless of the circumstances we find ourselves in?

38-Lessons from Epictetus

As I continue my journey through this new chapter of life, I find solace and wisdom in the teachings of the Stoic philosopher Epictetus. His profound insights offer guidance, especially during times of uncertainty and transition.

Epictetus, a former slave who rose to become one of the most influential Stoic philosophers, emphasized the importance of cultivating inner strength and resilience. His teachings resonate deeply with me as I navigate the challenges of prison life and my personal quest for growth and transformation.

One of the key lessons I’ve drawn from Epictetus is the idea that we have control over our thoughts and attitudes, even when external circumstances are beyond our control. He famously said, “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” This reminder has been a source of empowerment during my first week in prison. While I cannot change the fact of my incarceration, I can choose how I respond to it.

Epictetus also taught the value of distinguishing between what is within our control and what is not. He referred to this as the “dichotomy of control.” Understanding that we cannot control external events or the actions of others allows us to focus our energy on what we can control: our thoughts, emotions, and choices. This wisdom guides me as I strive to maintain a positive outlook and adapt to the prison environment.

Another valuable lesson from Epictetus is the importance of practicing gratitude. He encouraged his followers to appreciate even the simplest aspects of life, recognizing that gratitude fosters contentment and resilience. In my own life, I’ve found solace in being grateful for the support of my family, the opportunity for self-improvement, and the chance to help others during my time in prison.

Epictetus also emphasized the role of adversity in personal growth. He believed that challenges are opportunities for learning and character development. This perspective resonates deeply with me as I seek to make the most of my incarceration, using it as a crucible for self-improvement and transformation.

As I work on my upcoming project, “The Dalaly Mindset,” a workbook on positive thinking and personal growth, I draw inspiration from Epictetus’ teachings. His emphasis on the power of our thoughts and the importance of inner resilience aligns with the core principles of my work. I hope to convey the Stoic wisdom I’ve encountered in a practical and accessible format, offering tools and guidance for individuals seeking to cultivate a positive mindset.

In closing, the wisdom of Epictetus continues to light my path as I navigate the challenges and opportunities of my journey. His teachings remind me of the enduring power of inner strength, gratitude, and the capacity for growth, even in the face of adversity. As I embrace these lessons, I move forward with hope and determination, ready to face each day with resilience and a Stoic mindset.

Three Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How can the Stoic philosophy, particularly the teachings of Epictetus, help individuals better cope with adversity and maintain a positive outlook in challenging circumstances?
  2. In what ways can the practice of gratitude enhance one’s mental and emotional well-being, as suggested by Epictetus?
  3. Reflecting on the dichotomy of control, how can distinguishing between what is within our control and what is not contribute to personal growth and resilience?

37-Pearl Harbor and Natural Disasters

As I sit down to reflect on December 7, 2023, my thoughts are drawn to historical events that have left a lasting impact on our world. On this day, I am reminded of the attack on Pearl Harbor in 1941, a moment that changed the course of history. This tragic event, along with the lessons we’ve learned from natural disasters, offers valuable insights into the human spirit’s remarkable resilience.

Lesson 1: Adaptability in the Face of Adversity

The attack on Pearl Harbor was a sudden and devastating blow to the United States. The nation faced an unprecedented crisis, and the people had to adapt quickly to the new reality of World War II. In the face of such adversity, resilience was born out of necessity. Civilians became soldiers, women joined the workforce, and the entire country mobilized for war.

Natural disasters, too, demand rapid adaptation. Hurricanes, earthquakes, and wildfires can strike without warning, leaving communities in disarray. In these moments, people come together to support one another and rebuild their lives. The ability to adapt and find solutions amid chaos is a testament to human resilience.

Lesson 2: Strength in Unity and Support

The aftermath of Pearl Harbor saw a united nation, determined to overcome the tragedy and protect the values of freedom and democracy. The sense of unity and support for one another was palpable. Neighbors looked out for neighbors, and strangers became friends, bound by a common purpose.

Similarly, when natural disasters strike, communities often rally together. People offer shelter, food, and comfort to those in need. These moments of collective strength demonstrate the power of human compassion and the importance of leaning on one another during challenging times.

Lesson 3: Never Underestimate the Power of Resilience

In the wake of Pearl Harbor, the United States rebuilt its naval fleet, strengthened its resolve, and ultimately emerged victorious in World War II. This remarkable recovery underscores the indomitable human spirit’s capacity to overcome even the most devastating setbacks.

Natural disasters, too, reveal our resilience. Communities rebuild homes, infrastructure, and lives. They adapt to new circumstances, often emerging stronger and more prepared for future challenges.

Lesson 4: Preparation and Resilience

Both Pearl Harbor and natural disasters teach us the critical importance of preparedness. Pearl Harbor led to a reevaluation of national security and a commitment to being better prepared for future threats. In the face of natural disasters, preparation, early warning systems, and disaster response plans are essential to minimizing harm and aiding recovery.

As I consider these lessons on resilience, I am reminded that the human spirit has an extraordinary capacity to endure, adapt, and rebuild. Whether facing man-made or natural disasters, we have the power to rise above adversity, support one another, and emerge stronger than before.

Three Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How do historical events like the attack on Pearl Harbor and natural disasters shape our collective resilience and preparedness for future challenges?
  2. In what ways can individuals and communities better prepare for and respond to natural disasters to enhance their resilience?
  3. Reflecting on the lessons learned from Pearl Harbor, how can a nation’s response to a crisis strengthen its resolve and unity, fostering long-term resilience?

36-Lessons of Resilience and Family

As I sit down to write this journal entry on December 6, 2023, I find myself in a contemplative mood. Thanksgiving has come and gone, leaving behind cherished memories with my loving family. The warmth of their support and kindness during the weeks leading up to my surrender is a gift I will forever hold dear.

Thanksgiving was an occasion to reflect on the significance of family in my life. The preparations for my departure to Hazelton have been bittersweet, marked by the calls and gestures of my children, wife, and son-in-laws. They have shown me unwavering love and support, going above and beyond to ensure I felt cherished and appreciated. The simple act of asking what dish I wanted to eat in the days before my surrender was a reminder of the deep bond we share.

I can’t help but ponder how my past relationships and life experiences have shaped the way I communicate and navigate challenges. Over the years, I’ve learned valuable lessons, often through trial and error. One of the most profound lessons has been the importance of speaking less and listening more, a skill I observed in individuals like my dear friend Ayman, the wisdom of Chuck C, the storytelling finesse of Jack R, and many others. Their examples have taught me the power of effective communication and the value of staying low-key when necessary.

Family has always held a special place in my heart. It’s a sentiment I’ve carried with me throughout my life, and it’s only grown stronger over the years. Family, I believe, is the cornerstone of our existence. The roots that anchor us in times of turmoil and the vine that bears the sweetest fruit. If I could, I would gather my entire family under one roof, living together so I could impart wisdom, love, and guidance to each of them every day.

Looking ahead, I can’t help but think about the ways I can make a positive impact on the lives of others, especially those facing adversity. My commitment is unwavering, and I believe in identifying their challenges, offering guidance, and instilling a sense of positivity. It’s not merely a goal but a mission I’m determined to fulfill.

In times of unexpected change or adversity, maintaining a positive outlook and adapting to new circumstances becomes paramount. Negative thoughts can be powerful adversaries, but with prayer, unwavering focus, and a commitment to self-improvement, we can conquer them. A roadmap for the future, a vision of where we want to be, serves as a guiding light through the darkest of times.

Lastly, I reflect on a significant challenge in my life that reshaped my mindset and perspective. It was during those moments when fear loomed large, and I felt utterly alone. It was then that I turned to faith, hope, and belief to navigate the treacherous waters. I learned that adversity reveals true friends, those who stand by you when others flee like startled gazelles.

As I move forward on this journey, I carry these lessons of resilience and family with me. The strength of my bonds with loved ones and the wisdom gained from life’s trials will guide my path. My commitment to making a positive impact and staying positive in the face of adversity remains steadfast. With faith and determination, I embrace the future, ready to face whatever challenges come my way.

Three Critical Thinking Questions:

  1. How has your experience with family shaped your values and priorities in life?
  2. In what ways can effective communication and listening skills improve your relationships with others?
  3. When facing adversity, what strategies can help you maintain a positive outlook and adapt to new circumstances?

In the spirit of personal growth and self-reflection, I encourage you to ponder these questions and explore the lessons life has taught you.


As I reflect on my first week in the federal prison camp, I find myself transported back to the moment I surrendered. It was a mixture of anticipation, uncertainty, and a lingering sense of what lay ahead. While I had made preparations and had some level of confidence, stepping into this new environment was an experience unlike any other.

The staff members I encountered during my initial processing were professional and efficient. However, there was an undeniable feeling of being out of place, a reminder that I was entering a world far removed from my previous life. The first order of business was being placed in handcuffs, a symbolic act that marked the beginning of this journey.

Paperwork followed, with questions about my health and state of mind. It was a moment of introspection, an opportunity to acknowledge the emotions and thoughts that were swirling within me. The process, while necessary, was a reminder of the gravity of the situation.

Then came the strip search, an experience that felt dehumanizing, yet I understood its purpose in maintaining security within the facility. It was a stark reminder that I was no longer in control of my own privacy, a reality that I would have to adapt to in the days to come.

Within a few hours, I found myself within the confines of the camp itself. It was here that I would begin to acclimate to my new surroundings. Fellow inmates, who had already been navigating this environment, extended their hands in welcome. They showed me where I would sleep and walked me through the routines and schedules that would govern our days.

Living in the camp felt somewhat reminiscent of dormitory life, albeit with stricter rules and routines. Each day had a structured schedule that left little room for deviation. It was a world with its own unique rhythm, and I had to learn to find my place within it.

Yet, amidst the challenges and adjustments, my focus remained unwavering. I was determined to use this time productively, and one of my primary goals was to create “The Dalaly Mindset.” This workbook, inspired by my experiences and my desire to help others, held a special place in my heart.

In many ways, “The Dalaly Mindset” reminds me of a book I had the opportunity to read in the past, “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius. This ancient text served as instructions that the Roman Emperor would use to teach himself and guide his own actions. It was a source of wisdom and a testament to the power of introspection and self-improvement.

As I work on “The Dalaly Mindset,” I hope to channel the spirit of “Meditations” and create a teaching tool that can inspire positive change in the lives of others. It’s a reminder that even in the most challenging of circumstances, there is an opportunity for growth, learning, and transformation.

In conclusion, my first week in the federal prison camp has been a journey of adaptation and self-discovery. While the path ahead is uncertain, my commitment to personal growth and the creation of “The Dalaly Mindset” remains unwavering. As I move forward, I carry with me the lessons of the past and the hope of a brighter future.

Book Review: “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius

“Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius is a timeless masterpiece of philosophical literature. Written by the Roman Emperor during his reign in the 2nd century AD, this collection of personal writings serves as a profound guide to stoic philosophy and self-improvement.

Aurelius’ “Meditations” is not a conventional philosophical treatise but rather a series of reflections, notes, and observations intended for his own guidance and self-examination. In these pages, he contemplates the nature of virtue, the impermanence of life, and the importance of living in accordance with reason and moral principles.

What sets “Meditations” apart is its practicality. Aurelius offers practical advice on how to navigate the complexities of life with wisdom and integrity. He encourages readers to focus on what is within their control, to maintain inner tranquility, and to approach challenges with resilience and a sense of duty.

One of the central themes of the book is the idea that happiness and fulfillment are found within oneself, through the cultivation of virtue and the pursuit of wisdom. Aurelius emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, mindfulness, and the constant examination of one’s thoughts and actions.

Reading “Meditations” is like having a personal conversation with a wise mentor who imparts timeless wisdom. It challenges readers to confront their own flaws and limitations while offering a path to personal growth and inner peace.

In a world filled with distractions and external pressures, “Meditations” serves as a reminder of the enduring value of introspection and philosophical inquiry. It has the power to inspire profound self-reflection and guide individuals on a journey toward a more meaningful and virtuous life.

Critical-Thinking Questions:

  1. How can the principles of stoic philosophy, as discussed in “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius, be applied to your own life to cultivate resilience and inner peace?
  2. Reflect on a personal challenge or adversity you’ve faced recently. How might the insights from “Meditations” help you navigate such situations with greater wisdom and composure?
  3. Consider the idea of self-awareness and constant self-examination discussed in “Meditations.” How can you incorporate these practices into your daily life to promote personal growth and moral development?

34-Dalaly Mindset

As I sit down to reflect on this day, December 4, 2023, I can’t help but be struck by how much the world has transformed since December 2020. It feels like a lifetime ago, and yet, in the grand scheme of things, it’s just a blink of an eye.

Back in December 2020, the entire world was grappling with the immense challenges brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic. Lockdowns, restrictions, and the race to develop vaccines dominated headlines. We were all collectively holding our breath, hoping for a way out of the crisis.

In the midst of that uncertainty, President Joe Biden had just been elected and was about to take office. It was a moment of transition and change, as the United States prepared for a new leadership to tackle the pandemic and its repercussions.

Little did I know back then that my own life would take such a dramatic turn. The idea of surrendering to prison was nowhere on my radar. I was living a different reality, one that seemed so distant from where I find myself today.

Fast forward to December 4, 2023, and I’m now navigating my first week in prison. The journey from that December in 2020 to this moment has been a whirlwind of events, decisions, and unforeseen circumstances. It’s a testament to the unpredictable nature of life and the resilience of the human spirit.

As I move through this new phase of my life, I can’t help but look ahead with a sense of purpose and determination. One of my goals during my time here is to create a workbook that I’ve decided to call “The Dalaly Mindset.” This book will be a testament to the power of positive thinking and the importance of maintaining a hopeful outlook even in the face of adversity.

“The Dalaly Mindset” will not only be a collection of my own experiences and insights but also a practical guide for anyone seeking to cultivate a positive mindset in their own life. It will explore the strategies and techniques that have helped me stay resilient and focused on personal growth.

I believe that a positive mindset can be a transformative force. It has the potential to shape our experiences, influence our decisions, and ultimately lead us to a more fulfilling life. Through this workbook, I hope to share the tools and wisdom that have guided me on my journey.

As I reflect on the past few years and the world’s transformation, I am reminded of the importance of adaptability and resilience. Life can throw unexpected challenges our way, but it’s our response to those challenges that defines us.

In conclusion, December 4, 2023, marks another significant moment in my life’s journey. The world has changed, I have changed, and I’m embracing this new chapter with a sense of purpose and a commitment to make the most of my time here. “The Dalaly Mindset” is just one of the ways in which I hope to contribute positively to the lives of others, even from within these prison walls.

As I move forward, I am filled with gratitude for the opportunity to grow, learn, and inspire change, both in myself and those around me.

Three Critical-Thinking Questions:

  1. How has the COVID-19 pandemic shaped your own personal journey and mindset since December 2020?
  2. In times of unexpected change or adversity, what strategies do you employ to maintain a positive outlook and adapt to new circumstances?
  3. Reflect on a moment in your life when you faced a significant challenge. How did your mindset and perspective evolve as a result of that experience?

33-A Wish for Redemption

As I find myself navigating through the first week of my prison sentence, I can’t help but reflect on the moments that have led me here. One particular memory stands out, etched in my mind like a scene from a movie. It was the day before Thanksgiving, a day filled with both joy and a touch of sadness as I took my grandchildren to see the movie “Wish.”

As we settled into our seats in that dimly lit theater, little did I know that the film would touch me in a profound way, sparking a wish of my own—one that transcended the laws of physics. “Wish” is a heartwarming tale of a young girl named Asha, who, like me, made a wish that would change her world.

Asha’s wish was simple but profound: she wished for the universe to reverse the laws of physics for a day. And, as fate would have it, her wish unexpectedly came true. Chaos ensued as the laws of science were turned upside down. It was a powerful reminder that our wishes, even those seemingly impossible, have the potential to become reality.

As I sat in that theater, surrounded by the laughter and wonder of my grandchildren, I couldn’t help but be inspired by Asha’s journey. Her unwavering determination to set things right, even in the face of overwhelming challenges, struck a chord deep within me.

In that moment, I found myself wishing, not for a reversal of physics, but for a reversal of the decisions that had led me to this point. I longed to turn back time and rewrite the chapters of my life that had separated me from my family. The weight of those memories bore down on me, but I knew I couldn’t let them define me.

Instead, I made a promise to myself that day, a promise to create opportunities for redemption and to help others find their path to a better future. Just as Asha embarked on a journey to undo her wish and set things right, I, too, vowed to make amends and emerge from this experience as a stronger, more compassionate individual.

The movie “Wish” reminded me that, despite the challenges and mistakes that may have brought us to a crossroads in life, we all have the power to make a difference. It’s a lesson in resilience, the pursuit of dreams, and the importance of nurturing the bonds of family and community.

As I continue to serve my sentence, I carry with me the inspiration I found in that theater, a reminder that even behind these prison walls, there is hope and the potential for positive change. I am determined to make my family and community proud, to turn my own story of redemption into a source of inspiration for others.

With each passing day, I will strive to embody the spirit of Asha, to chase dreams with unwavering determination, and to help those around me find their own path to a better future. It is a wish that transcends the laws of physics, a wish for redemption and renewal.

And so, as I sit in my cell, I hold onto the belief that just as Asha’s wish came true, so too can our wishes for a brighter tomorrow. It’s a lesson I carry with me on this journey of self-discovery and transformation, a journey that I hope will inspire others to never give up on their dreams, no matter the circumstances.

Three Critical-Thinking Questions:

  1. How can movies and stories like “Wish” inspire individuals to make positive changes in their lives, even in the face of adversity?
  2. What role does determination and the pursuit of dreams play in the process of personal redemption and transformation?
  3. In what ways can individuals who have faced challenges and made mistakes use their experiences to help others find their path to a better future?


As I climb through these first days of my prison term, I draw strength by reflecting on a memorable evening in the weeks before I surrendered—a gathering filled with nostalgia, laughter, and heartfelt conversations. My son-in-laws, Cliff, Brandon, and DeVon, organized a dinner event in my honor, bringing together old friends from the 1970s, cousins, and nephews. It was a gathering that touched my heart deeply and left me with profound lessons and a renewed sense of purpose.

Walking into the restaurant that evening, I was greeted by the warm smiles of familiar faces, some of whom I hadn’t seen in decades. There was a sense of camaraderie and an unmistakable feeling of respect in the air. As we sat down to share a meal, the room was filled with stories from the past, accomplishments, and the kind of laughter that only old friends can share.

The evening’s conversations took us on a journey through the years, reminding me of the bonds forged in youth and the enduring friendships that time couldn’t erode. It was a testament to the value of relationships and the true wealth that lies not in our checkbooks but in the people we are surrounded by.

In that moment, I spoke a few words to express my gratitude and shared a simple yet profound truth: life is a tapestry woven with moments of joy, sorrow, and everything in between. It is our responsibility to appreciate the good, learn from the bad, and find strength in the face of adversity.

Reflecting on my journey as a husband of over 45 years, I couldn’t help but recall the challenging times Vivian and I faced in our early years. There were days when we struggled, when our financial situation was dire, and our young daughter, Dina, needed our care and support. It was during those times that arguments would arise, highlighting the importance of communication within a marriage.

Looking back, I realized that it wasn’t just what we said to each other but how we said it that truly mattered. Communication, with empathy and understanding, became the cornerstone of our ability to navigate through those difficult moments. We didn’t rush to divorce attorneys; instead, we worked through our challenges together with faith and determination.

I fondly remember the unwavering support of my loving sister, Norah, and her husband, Jack, during those trying times. They stepped in to pay our Blue Cross bills, demonstrating the power of family bonds and the love that transcends even the toughest of circumstances. Norah, a guardian angel in my life, has always gone out of her way to help others, a testament to the unbreakable bond we share as siblings and friends.

During the dinner, I overheard a conversation about someone who had recently been released from prison, struggling to find employment and rebuild a fulfilling life. It struck a chord deep within me, and as I drove past the church I attend, I made the sign of the cross, reaffirming my commitment to spend my time as a man of faith, with a commitment to helping others.

I pledged that during my time in prison, I would use every opportunity to help others rebuild their spirits, advocate for their education, and assist them in finding meaningful employment to support themselves and their families upon release. Without guidance and support, these individuals could easily find themselves trapped in a cycle of desperation and crime.

Understanding that change is not easy, especially for those who have not had proper upbringing or guidance, I committed to being a driving force for their transformation. This journey will demand unwavering commitment and dedication, but I firmly believe that positive change is possible for anyone willing to embrace it.

As I conclude this reflection from my dinner gathering, I am reminded of the power of connections, the importance of effective communication, and the profound impact we can have on the lives of others. My commitment to helping those in need remains unshaken, and I carry the lessons learned from that evening in my heart as I embark on this new chapter in my life.

Now, here are three critical-thinking questions for you to ponder:

  1. How have your past relationships and experiences shaped the way you communicate and navigate challenges in your life?
  2. What role does family play in providing support during difficult times, and how can you strengthen your bonds with loved ones?
  3. In what ways can you make a positive impact on the lives of others, especially those facing adversity, and what steps can you take to fulfill that commitment?

As you consider these questions, may you find inspiration in the lessons shared from my journey and discover your own path toward personal growth and positive change.

With hope and a commitment to making a difference,

John Dalaly

31-Beacons of Hope

In the days before I surrendered to serve my term at the federal prison camp in Hazelton on November 30, 2023, I read a book that held profound significance for this new chapter in my life. That book was “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Viktor E. Frankl. The reason behind my choice was simple yet profound. Having faced the uncertainty of incarceration, I sought a source of inspiration and guidance to help me navigate the challenges that lay ahead. “Man’s Search for Meaning” came highly recommended for its ability to illuminate the human spirit’s resilience in the darkest of times, making it a natural choice for this pivotal moment.

What I Learned from Reading “Man’s Search for Meaning”

Frankl’s memoir and psychological exploration of his experiences in Nazi concentration camps offer a unique perspective on the human capacity for finding meaning and purpose, even amidst unimaginable suffering. As I delved into the pages of this extraordinary book, I gleaned several invaluable lessons:

  1. The Power of Inner Freedom: Frankl emphasizes that, regardless of external circumstances, individuals possess the ultimate freedom—the freedom to choose their attitudes and responses. While I may have lost physical freedom, I am reminded that my inner freedom remains intact. I can choose to approach this period of my life with resilience, hope, and a commitment to growth.
  2. Finding Meaning Amidst Adversity: Frankl’s concept of logotherapy underscores the idea that life’s primary motivation is the search for meaning. Even within the confines of a prison cell, one can discover meaning through relationships, work, or personal growth. This revelation encourages me to seek purpose in each day, whether through self-improvement, supporting fellow inmates, or planning for my future reentry.
  3. The Importance of Helping Others: Frankl’s experiences in the concentration camp reinforced the idea that assisting others, even in small ways, contributes to one’s sense of purpose and well-being. I aim to apply this lesson by actively participating in programs that support fellow inmates and by preparing for a future where I can make a positive impact on society.

How Reading “Man’s Search for Meaning” Will Help My Reentry Plan of Helping Others

Reading “Man’s Search for Meaning” has bolstered my determination to transform this period of incarceration into an opportunity for personal growth and self-discovery. The lessons learned from Frankl’s profound work will undoubtedly play a pivotal role in my reentry plan of helping others. Here’s how:

  1. Guiding Others to Discover Meaning: I intend to share the insights from this book with other men I will meet in prison, guiding them to find meaning in their own lives, even within the challenging confines of prison. By facilitating discussions and reflections on the book’s themes, I hope to inspire others to develop a positive outlook and resilience.
  2. Promoting Rehabilitation and Second Chances: “Man’s Search for Meaning” reinforces the belief that individuals can transform their lives, regardless of past mistakes. As I plan for my reentry into society, I will use this knowledge to advocate for rehabilitation programs and second chances for formerly incarcerated individuals. By sharing my story and experiences, I aim to create opportunities for others seeking redemption.
  3. Supporting Mental Health Initiatives: The book underscores the importance of addressing mental health and well-being. I will actively participate in and promote mental health initiatives within the prison system, ensuring that inmates have access to resources that foster resilience and psychological growth.

Critical-Thinking Questions:

  1. How can the concept of “inner freedom,” as discussed in “Man’s Search for Meaning,” be applied to overcome personal challenges and adversities in your life?
  2. In what ways can the pursuit of meaning and purpose contribute to the rehabilitation and successful reentry of individuals within the criminal justice system?
  3. How might the principles outlined in Viktor E. Frankl’s book be used to inspire and support others facing difficult circumstances or crises?

“Man’s Search for Meaning” serves as a guiding light during this pivotal period of my life. I am determined to harness its wisdom, not only for my personal growth but also to empower others on their journeys towards redemption and renewal. With hope, resilience, and a commitment to positive change, I embark on this path with the conviction that even within the confines of prison, we can find meaning and make a difference in the world.

In addition to the lessons learned from “Man’s Search for Meaning,” there is a profound connection between the teachings of the New Testament and Viktor E. Frankl’s insights. One lesson that resonates with both is the power of love and compassion.

In the New Testament, Jesus teaches about the importance of unconditional love for others, even in the face of adversity or suffering. This message aligns with Frankl’s belief in the significance of helping others and finding meaning through acts of kindness and support. Both emphasize that by extending love and compassion to those around us, we not only bring comfort and healing to others but also discover a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment in our own lives.

Furthermore, both “Man’s Search for Meaning” and the New Testament emphasize the transformative power of forgiveness. Frankl’s experiences in the concentration camps taught him the importance of forgiving others, even in the midst of unimaginable pain. Similarly, the New Testament teaches that forgiveness is not only a means of healing and reconciliation but also a pathway to personal liberation and spiritual growth.

By incorporating the teachings of the New Testament alongside the lessons from “Man’s Search for Meaning,” individuals can find a comprehensive framework for personal growth, resilience, and the pursuit of meaning. The combination of love, compassion, and forgiveness can guide individuals through challenging circumstances, inspire positive change, and foster a deep sense of connection with others and with a higher purpose.

As I reflect on the lessons from both sources, I am reminded of the profound impact that love, compassion, and forgiveness can have on our lives, regardless of the circumstances we face. These timeless principles provide a beacon of hope and guidance, offering solace and strength as we navigate the complexities of life, whether within the confines of a prison or in the broader context of society.

These lessons will strengthen me as I spend my first days away from my family.

30-PRIDE and Unlocking Potential

Today marks the beginning of a new chapter in my life, one that I approach with a mixture of apprehension and determination. Late this morning, I will walk into the federal prison camp in Hazelton. Without fully knowing what is to come, I reflect on the journey that has led me to this point. It’s a journey filled with both triumphs and regrets, and now, it’s a journey of self-discovery and transformation.

One of the thoughts that have been on my mind as I embark on this new path is my past involvement with the nonprofit organization PRIDE (Prison Rehabilitative Industries and Diversified Enterprises, Inc.) in Florida. PRIDE’s mission aligns closely with my own beliefs about the power of rehabilitation and second chances.

PRIDE offers vocational training programs to eligible inmates, equipping them with valuable skills that can significantly impact their reentry into the job market upon release. These programs cover a wide range of skills, from producing license plates and sewn products to graphics and printing, dental and optical products, and land management. The diversity of vocational training offered by PRIDE reflects its commitment to providing inmates with practical skills that can open doors to employment opportunities upon release.

In addition to vocational training, PRIDE also operates Career Resource Centers at each program location. These centers provide vital resources for career preparation, including resume writing, mock interviews, and test preparation for the Test of Adult Basic Education (TABE). The emphasis on career readiness not only enhances the inmates’ employability but also instills a sense of hope and purpose as they prepare for life beyond prison walls.

What strikes me as particularly inspiring about PRIDE is the significant number of training certificates, certifications, and third-party external training certificates earned by PRIDE inmate workers in 2022. This achievement reflects the dedication of both the people in prison and the organization in ensuring that when people transition back into society, they will return with skills that translate into better prospects for success.

As I await the time when administrators will process me into the institution, I can’t help but think about the impact that organizations like PRIDE can have on individuals seeking redemption and a fresh start. I am proud to have once played a role in collaborating with PRIDE, and supporting the organization’s mission. At the time, I never anticipated that I would serve a day in prison.

Nevertheless, I’ve witnessed firsthand the transformative power of vocational training and educational programs in helping individuals break the cycle of incarceration. It reinforces my belief that every person has the potential for growth and change, regardless of their past mistakes.

Today, once I begin my own journey inside prison boundaries, I am reminded of the importance of resilience and the pursuit of personal growth. I intend to make the most of my time while I serve my sentence. I’ll move through this journey with a commitment to live with dignity and integrity. I will continue to seek knowledge, engage in self-improvement, and work towards becoming a better version of myself.

As I conclude this journal entry, I leave readers with three critical-thinking questions:

  1. How can vocational training programs like those offered by PRIDE contribute to reducing recidivism rates and helping formerly incarcerated individuals reintegrate into society successfully?
  2. What role does hope and a sense of purpose play in the rehabilitation of individuals within the criminal justice system?
  3. In what ways can society better support individuals who are reentering society after serving their sentences, ensuring they have the tools and opportunities for a fresh start?

These questions will continue to occupy my thoughts as I navigate this new chapter in my life, determined to emerge from it as a stronger, more resilient individual.

With hope and a commitment to growth, I am,

John Dalaly

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